Loving parents always hope that they have given their children enough love, attention, and self-confidence that their children will be safe from inappropriate Internet relationships.
Much as we love our kids, however, there are always going to be children who are vulnerable to the inappropriate attention of others, and the Internet has simply made more children vulnerable.
Sometimes children simply become addicted to the Internet itself, while not being in an inappropriate relationship. While this is bad enough, having your child vulnerable to predators is much, much worse.
Here are some of the signs to be aware of. They don’t necessarily mean your child is in an inappropriate Internet relationship, but they are warning signs nonetheless.
Even more important, make sure your child feels comfortable talking with you. Let them know that, if they’ve made a new friend online, you would be willing to have them over but you need to talk with this friend’s parents to make sure it’s OK with them, too. If your child starts making excuses, it’s time for a talk.
As a parent, you have responsibilities. Don’t assume a problem will go away. Talk openly with your children about your suspicions. Tell your children about the dangers of on-line predators. Consider showing older children the local online sex offender registry, particularly those offenders within a few miles radius of where you live. The photos alone may be enough to make your point. But talk with them.